Why I Don’t Speak About Osé Topics
Homosexuality, fat-shaming, tattoos, money, love, sex… I don’t talk about any of these topics, here’s why.
I’ve always been one to be fascinated by taboos and topics that are out there. It’s like there’s always been something about these things that just turn me on. But it’s not for the reasons you think.
Whereas most people like talking about these topics (or pretending not to) because they are either excited or turned on by them, or they simply like the fact that it’s something spicy we DON’T talk about, these topics fascinate me for the simple reason that they have been banned.
It’s like I always say: “If it ain't illegal, immoral, or dangerous, why not?”
I find it quite fascinating how people can be at the same time scared of a subject, and keep it on the hush-hush, and at the same time completely obsessed with it.
I’m talking about trending searches, how people act, and what everyone seems to have on their minds. I can tell because when people are given the opportunity to open up, either through something uninhibited or in a setting that makes them feel safe, it’s the first thing that comes out.
How on earth do so many people have the SAME topic on their minds, want to talk about it but can’t, and then never do UNLESS it’s a safe environment.
Well, that’s exactly it ain't it: people think most environments are NOT safe to share. And this even after everything we’ve been through as humans.
We’ve gone from nothing to free speech, feminism, democracy, enforced laws, legal vices, and the internet. Now if that’s not permission to share I don’t know what is.
I’m just concerned for the people who still feel like their voice needs to be kept quiet. And this by someone or something that is ruining their lives. What these people don’t know is that thousands or even millions of people would be grateful to get their perspective on the matter.
I, for one, think that everywhere should be a safe place. Things that need to be talked about shouldn’t be bottled up inside until it’s too late, and it comes out all weird in some kind of acting out or tragedy.
When people feel like they can express themselves, the wheels start to turn. When people feel stifled, only those who are already in power have a say.
Just my two cents.
Alex
