How To Get Your Dream Job & Live Your Dream Life

Alexandre Mouland
3 min readJun 28, 2023

This is my opinion on the matter…

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Finding your dream job and living your dream life shouldn’t be complicated. It’s your dream!

Every waking (and sleeping, no pun intended) moment is technically spent making it a reality, but sometimes things seem to get in the way. Am I right?

So, the purpose of this contribution is to propose a failsafe guide to making your dream life happen.

Strategy #1: Make love with beautiful people

This one is cool because we get to remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

If you get closer to the people you love, you’ll make a better life for yourself by definition, since you’ll have the who part covered.

Spending life with people you don’t love is a fast track to hell.

Strategy #2: Know where your money is coming from

Understand that people are only buying things (and your time) if they deem it more valuable than the actual money, and anything else they could spend it on.

This means that you should understand what people are already paying for before offering them anything, be it your time, a product or service.

And don’t take too much risk in innovation, it freaks people out!

Strategy #3: Pre-action, Action, Reaction

“Pre-action” here is any action made in preparation for another action. It sets the stage and lights the fire…

Make your pre-action all about becoming more attractive to the people who you want to attract. That way you’ll have a better time preparing for their arrival.

“Action” here is anything that is conducive to some result.

Make your action all about getting to know your people and learning what they like to do (and buy).

This is a surefire way to get on the same page of the people already in your life, and those about to become a part of it too.

“Reaction” here is the way you deal with anything incoming.

Make your reaction all about gravitating toward people who buy what you like to buy.

This’ll make it easy to make and spend money and create a meaningful life with the people you get along with, as well as create opportunities to enjoy the fruits of your labour in a socially fulfilling way.

Bonus strategy: Mirror your wants

It’s no secret in a lot of ways we attract what we put out into the world. For example, if you ask the grocer for an apple, they will most likely get you an apple.

If we were to take this concept one step further, we could go about making our wants clear as day and taking the appropriate action, with an appropriate attitude, to mirror our wants.

Applicably, if we wanted people to act differently, or things to manifest differently, we would go about being more of what we want to experience, whatever that may mean to us.

I hope this works for you too, because this makes too much sense to me!

Thanks for reading,

Alexandre

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Alexandre Mouland

Just a guy fascinated by psychology, marketing and personal development.